Matthew 25:1-13 November 8, 2026

Wise and Foolish Virgins
Ain Veris
Be Prepared!
That’s
what I’ve always heard this
parable was about. Being prepared.
Make sure you have enough oil in your lamp.
Don’t
be caught with your lamp unlit.
Be
like those Wise Young Women.
This parable is only in Matthew.
And
it’s a nice, easy to visualize, memorable image.
Ten
women waiting for a groom at a wedding.
Five
wise and five foolish, the foolish forget to stock
up
on oil, and the wise tell them to go and get their own.
The
foolish ones do, and while they’re gone,
they
miss the bridegroom and miss out on the whole wedding.
And
the moral of the story is always Be Prepared!
Right?
I have preached about that. The first
time I did was 2002
I
talked about my own wedding which happened only a month earlier.
To quote my 33 year old self:
Jesus was not talking
about a preparedness that we can see,
Jesus was talking about a
preparedness that we cannot see,
Jesus was talking about an
inner preparedness
one in our hearts and our
minds.
Ahh, Senior seminarians.
I am annoyed with myself
as first year and second year seminarian,
but senior seminarian me I
just feel sorry for because they’re
still so idealistic, but
they’re about to get thrown into the cold
water of reality very soon.
Anyway, senior seminarian
me was apparently doing some
guest preaching somewhere and
told everyone to be prepared.
Which is what most people get
out of this parable.
I mean it’s okay, but it has always just left me kind
of limp.
Is
that what Jesus was telling his disciples?
This
understanding always stressed me out.
And
it seemed to permit and encourage the easy- to-fall
back
on element of Christianity.
The
part that doesn’t really need to be encouraged.
The
kind of spiritual self-help Christianity, that’s focused
on
me and on my spiritual well-being worship festivals
and
burnt offerings, and solemn assemblies,
which has its place, but it just never hit me that Jesus
was talking about that at
this moment in Matthew.
What if Jesus isn’t telling us to be prepared at all
in this parable?
What
if Jesus isn’t telling us to stock up on oil,
or
food, or prayers, or spiritual resilience or
whatever
that metaphor is.
What
if he was not telling us to be like those Wise Young Women
What
if those Wise Young Women
were
not the heroes of his story at all?
If you notice, “be prepared” is not even what Jesus
tells
us at the end of the parable.
Jesus
doesn’t say, “be like the wise young women”
and
he doesn’t say be prepared with that oil.
He tells
us “Keep Awake”.
And
in the story, “ALL of the young women got drowsy and slept.”
So
all of them were not doing what they needed to do.
The
“Wise” young women are not the good examples in here.
I
don’t think there are any good examples here.
It’s important when reading a parable to understand
the
context that it’s being told in.
Here,
Jesus is talking to his disciples,
He’s
not talking to the religious leaders this time.
The lesson that he’s telling them actually starts out
in chapter 24
He
tells them that there will be wars and rumors of wars.
That
all sorts of distressing stuff would happen.
He
says that people will come claiming to be the false
Messiah,
and he says, “Beware that no one leads you astray.”
Then in 25,
He
and the 12 have left the temple and Jesus tells them that
there
would be a time when the temple wouldn’t be there.
And
then they’ve asked him to tell them about that time,
“how
would they know?” Of course, he doesn’t answer that.
He
tells them this story about a wedding.
As I told you before, weddings were different than
now.
People
didn’t send out invites 6 weeks earlier,
there
wasn’t a definite time for a wedding.
In
Jesus time, weddings were kind of surprises.
The exact time was not known
in advance.
The community kind of knew
something was brewing
that a couple is engaged and about to be married
and they needed to be ready and the weddings happened after
sundown.
The young women, or the bridesmaid’s job was to
light the way for the bride
and the groom to go to the wedding party.
There’s lots of other
fascinating things about weddings,
but that’s all we really need
to know for this parable.
So the young women are doing their job, waiting for
the bride and groom,
But
in this story the bridegroom is late.
None
of this would have mattered if they bridegroom wasn’t late.
But
he was, and instead of staying up, the young women fell asleep.
All
of them. Not just the ones called foolish, the wise ones too.
And important part of this parable is how the words
are translated.
The
translations we have are really excellent and are based
on
the original manuscripts in the original Greek,
but
translation is not an exact science.
There’s
a lot of input that a translation team can have.
I can always rely on the fact that someone who knows
more than me
has looked into the little quirky words in the bible,
and
sure enough someone has with this one.
The word that is translated as “young women” is actually “virgins”,
which is
interesting for a variety of reasons.
and I don’t know why the translators made the choice
to call them “young women” but
I’m not sure what to make of that.
Maybe
it’s closer to the spirit of the story.
Which
is more about their youth than about their sexual status.
Or maybe the translation team didn’t want to give their mothers the vapors.
I’m
not quite sure what to make of it. So moving on.
But what I kind of do know what to make something out
of,
is that the words that are translated a little
more gently in the story
as
“wise” and “foolish” are a little harsher in the Greek.
What
is translated as “Wise” is better translated as “crafty”.
It’s
the same word that’s used when Jesus says in Luke
“be
as crafty as serpents”. So more than
wise, they’re cunning.
Or
maybe even “devious”.
And the word that’s translated as “foolish” is probably
better translated as stupid. It’s actually pronounced morai
which is where we
get the word moron from.
So
more than foolish, it’s actually dull or slow-witted.
Now obviously, the disciples wouldn’t need that
subtlety
of
language translated for them.
They
would have just known from the words
that
Jesus was calling the virgins with the oil crafty,
and
that maybe they were up to no good actually.
And
the virgins who ran out were stupid.
So back to the parable, everyone has fallen asleep
and
when the tardy bridegroom comes,
the
stupid virgins realize they don’t have enough oil
and
their lamps have gone out.
And
they ask the crafty virgins if they could have some oil.
One thing that always bothered me about this parable
in the traditional understanding of it, is about those Wise virgins –
the ones that the parable was supposedly telling us to
be
like and emulate – Why don’t they something as simple as share?
They
say they won’t have enough, but really?
Jesus talks about sharing in lots of other places.
In
the wide scope of the story of Jesus, he is all about sharing.
So
if these wise virgins were actually the heroes of our story,
why
wouldn’t they share a little of what they had?
That
would be a swell story.
I think the answer to this conundrum is actually that
the
crafty,
now stingy virgins are not the heroes of the story.
The
crafty virgins take advantage of this opportunity
of
the sleep-dazed, dopey virgins.
When the stupid virgins ask for some oil, the crafty virgins tell the foolish ones,
“no, there won’t be enough,
Why
don’t you go to the gas station up the road
and
get you some more?”
And here’s where, I think, the real problem comes in,
and
why the stupid virgins are stupid.
The
stupid virgins believe the crafty, stingy virgins and they leave.
They
are led astray by these false prophets.
They
go off on a hunt for whatever they feel they need
to
stock up on they went off to get more prepared,
and
they miss the whole party.
they
believed the crafty virgins.
They
trusted the myth of scarcity of the kingdom of God.
They
believed that there wouldn’t be enough oil.
They believed there wouldn’t be enough light and that the bridegroom was
not going to be happy if they weren’t prepared because – what?
there wouldn’t be enough light?
Here’s
the thing about light, just because I’m holding the light
it
doesn’t mean that other people can’t use the light I’m holding.
If five of those virgins had lamps that were lit --even if just one were lit –
that
would have been enough for that whole bridal party.
The reality is that those crafty virgins wanted the
bridegroom
and
the party all to themselves, so they sent the
stupid
virgins on a wild goose chase down
to
the Circle K for some more oil.
In this parable, the stingy, crafty virgins
that seem to have all their stuff
together are really just the false prophets
trying
to lead us all astray.
Those five stupid virgins without enough oil, didn’t actually need to be worried about it.
They didn’t need to go the store.
Their worry actually led them astray and they missed the main goal
which was
to see the bridegroom into the party.
So what I think Jesus was saying to his disciples
is actually
what he says,
“keep awake” and don’t believe in those crafty religious people ,
don’t
believe in the ones who want to lead you on a different path.
Don’t
believe in the ones who tell you need more to qualify.
He’s warning them about all those false prophets that
would
eventually come and to lead Christianity astray
for
the next couple thousands of years.
Those
who would try to manipulate Jesus way into
a
method for their own wealth and power.
Jesus is telling them and telling us:
Don’t
believe those who tell you that the kingdom of God
is
only for the select few, that the blessings of God
are
only for those who worship Jesus in a
certain way.
Who
tell you that God only wants a certain narrow definition
of
good and holy in God’s kingdom.
Don’t believe the voices that say that the poor
are
wholly to blame for their situations.
That
they’re cursed and not blessed.
Or rich
people are better or more favored.
Don’t believe the loud voices telling us that
Jesus
was for destroying our enemies instead of praying for them.
Don’t
believe the voices saying that empathy is sinful
and
cruelty is what God wants from us.
Don’t believe the voices that say that women are second class citizens
and that their
only worthy job is to support someone else.
Don’t
believe in the voices of racism and white supremacy.
Don’t
believe the voices that say that the Kingdom of God
is
not a vision of diversity, inclusion, and equity.
Don’t believe the voices that says that God hates
gay
and lesbian people or transgender people,
or
that God hates Muslims or Jews or Hindus or any other
multitude
of religions that make up this beautiful country
and
this awesome and wonderful world.
Don’t let those false Messiahs
distract
you from what you know Jesus has taught us.
Don’t
let them distract you from Jesus way.
Don’t
let them distract you with their lies of scarcity
that
say that there is not enough God to go around.
These voices have been so loud and so persistent,
and
so many people have listened to these voices
and
left their faith because it’s not aligning with
who
they know God and Jesus to be.
They’re thinking, “I’ll never have enough oil.
I’ll
never have enough holiness or faith or dedication to God.
I’ll
never be what those voices tell me I need to be.”
So
they’ve just moved on from church and faith
to
find their fill elsewhere.
Jesus is saying, “Don’t believe in those
crafty, stingy virgins who tell you need more.
They are just trying to lead you astray.”
When the disciples ask Jesus “how do read the
signs?
how
do we tell when you’re returning to us”
Jesus
answer is, “don’t sweat it.” Stop worrying about it.
Just
keep awake. Keep doing your work.
Don’t
get distracted by those voices and false messiahs.
There
will be many of them who will come and go.
Just
remember that you are invited to the party
no
matter if you’re prepared or not.”
Just stay awake and wait for God.
Keep
alert to all the good things God is doing in our world.
Wait
for the party.
And don’t worry about the lamps if you run out of oil,
there’s
enough light to go around for everyone.

